Change

Being criticized or judged might just be a blame game for some while for others it may be a daily routine. No doubt it brings disgust and self hatred with it. The thing is that’s not what matters . What matters is how long you can take it and not do anything about it. Yes!, “ How Long?”This question might pop up into the mind of those who try their best but still don’t get what they deserve. And if you are one of them then there is a need to change. 

It’s not easy to accept negative feedback but to get in harmony with it and not to do anything about it is worse because that’s what you are going to do for the rest of your life. Simply hear what other’s say and ignore. But if you are strong enough to change and stop them by breaking your silence. You’ll get gratification. 

I’m not saying be a complete different person but to improve yourself is always good for the betterment. In my case I was shy and sort of an introvert since my childhood but with time I opened up a lot more. Like many of us I too used to feel awkward in social gatherings even a little bit now too. But trust me when I started indulging in more of them things started getting better. And now even my best friend says 😂 “You can talk to anyone”.

So here’s the thing improving yourself by practicing the thing you find yourself weak at will give you positive result. It depends solely on you to either ignore or play the blame game or just do what is best for you to take the negative feedback and grow from it. Don’t give up on change.


Thanks for reading!❤️

34 thoughts on “Change

  1. I fully agree with you! We have to work for ourselves. No one else gonna do that for us.. and it’s always better to change than to be a victim. Well penned 👍

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  2. Yeah, it’s right If silence won’t work for you any longer then use the words.
    In my case, I’m facing criticism for my passion in my home right now but so far silence is working for me. When it will start to going over, I definitely need to break the silence and face the criticizers…
    Nice post… 👏👏👏👏👏👏.
    Keep it up Adi.. 👍👍

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    1. It’s okay just do whatever you want to no matter what others say to you. And I am glad you kept going even after facing such things at home. That’s the sign of a good blogger. Keep going mate.👍 Have a great day!💛

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